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His Porn.

If you’re like me, you hate his porn habit more than you want to admit. It’s frustrating, demeaning, and it’s created a wedge between you. I’ve been there. (BTW: My husband can help your guy quit porn.)

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His Porn

Your Pain.

You’re in pain. Talking with him only creates more distance, but avoiding the problem only makes it worse. You’re ready for real answers.

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Yes, Healed!

Is there hope? Yes! You don’t have to “just heal” from this. Imagine an awesome life beyond all this. You can trust your future again.

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Your Relationship

If you’re tired of the distance his porn use creates, the sleepless nights, and the constant fear of future betrayals, I can help. I became a Bravehearts Certified Mentor™  and I’ve completed the APSATS M-PTM Training so I can help you find a way out of the trauma of betrayal.

If this issue is destroying you and your relationship,
I’ve found many “best practices” that can help you find happiness.
There’s a way out of the craziness; I’m helping partners like you find it.

If you want to be happy,
if you want peace of mind,
if you want your life back,
you’re in the right place.

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What I Do


Need one-on-one or couples mentorship? While there are no easy or quick solutions to this issue, I can help you with easier and quicker solutions.
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For over twenty years, I’ve looked at what works and what doesn’t. I do my best to cover one of those topics every week.
See the “Free Tips and Techniques” section on this page…


Want peace of mind? Want a better relationship? I continue to find best practices and effective tools–ones that won’t shut you or your partner down.
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Click the video for:
-what my husband would tell guys
-what I would tell partners
-and what we would have done differently

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