If your story is like ours, traditional approaches aren't working for you. In that case you're not alone; studies show that traditional methods only have a 3% success rate when it comes to this issue. 

For over 20 years, I've researched best practices regarding this issue. Then my husband and I became the first to graduate as BraveHearts Certified Mentors, trained by Michael Leahy, who is a speaker and author of Porn Nation

More recently, I completed the APSATS Betrayal Trauma Training for partners of addicts. 

Because the mentoring model already had a strong track record, when we became mentors we believed the techniques we found over the previous 20 years would increase the chances of your success.

And so far it seems to be looking that way.

(My husband has been able to help 80% of his guys find freedom. And what took me 15 years to do, I can now get a woman through in 4 months.) 

"Lori and Jay are determined, hard-working, and share my passion for helping those who struggle find the freedom they now enjoy. But because they're working together to help individuals AND couples, I expect to see many fractured marriages heal and grow stronger in ways I could never do by only mentoring men. These are two talented freedom-fighters."Michael Leahy, speaker, trainer and author

My husband helps men get free of porn, and I help women heal from the pain this issue causes. But we also help couples, meaning it's more than porn-management for him and pain-management for you.  We help your relationship heal.  

When working 1-on-1, I will tailor make solutions for you on a weekly basis. If your guy signs up with my husband, he will work 1-on-1 with him  in the same way. If we're working with you as a couple, all four of us will be on the call (during the third phase.) 


We are not licensed therapists; we will, however, refer a client to a professional if needed. We take a much different approach when it comes to this issue, and we want to give you practical techniques to help you heal more quickly and more fully.


There's only so much we can do to motivate another person to grow, but I can show you effective ways to  communicate your needs and boundaries so he knows exactly what's at stake.  

Then if he's still not interested, I can help you weigh your options so you know if it's time to take action.

But please understand: By the time women reach out, they are usually in so much pain they think their only option is to leave. So if it ever gets that painful for you, please remember that we can find other options.


Being treated better.
Healing to a better place than before.
Receiving real solutions.
Feeling good about your future.
Fewer sleepless nights.
Trusting again.


See my FAQ for current pricing options.


1) The first step is to contact me. If money is an issue, please let me know.
2) Then we will figure out if this program will be a good fit.
3) Still not sure? No problem. Download the free guide below, which has a few of the first steps I take clients through.
4) And because this issue rarely goes away on it's own, please be kind to yourself during this process.