“Change doesn’t happen until it gets painful enough.” Is this true? If so, what does it look like? That’s what…
This video gives some keys to successful relationships.
Here are the 2 things Matt feels guys need to do in order to save their marriages.
The second half of this video explains how to “Rage at the Addiction” in a way that actually helps you heal more quickly. (Clicking on the timestamps below will take you to
Porn addiction, betrayal and lies can wreck a couple. An addict has to be ready to release his old coping mechanisms. Jay and Lori also cover their experience with addiction and fear, as well as what surrender looks like. They also address the difference between Savior and Boss.
0:00 Intro & Step 6 (Preparing for this…)
1:55 “Being entirely ready” means getting rid of ‘tools’ that help only me
3:08 Jesus appears to ask a stupid question but it applies to addicts***
4:52 But those tools have been effective in these ways…
5:18 Why it’s challenging (and how it’s played out in Jay’s life)
This Step is about addicts not lying to themselves anymore—and not hiding the truth about themselves anymore. It’s about getting real, and why.
In this episode we cover:
-Step 5 of the 12-Steps
-How Jay switched harmful addictions
-How there are different layers to addiction and lust…
Withholding information (also known as lying) is common, especially with porn and sex addiction. That’s why this step is crucial to…
The addict’s ways are a type of insanity, and in order to get better, he has to depend on a Power greater than himself to restore him to sanity. A wife need him to do this, but even if he doesn’t, she can still be RESTORED!
This episode covers:
-Step 2 of the 12 Steps of Addiction Recovery
-Believing in a Power greater than ourselves
-The root of
While our relationships may become unsustainable as betrayed wives, this episode shares tips for our partner’s recovery, what powerlessness is and isn’t, as well as how his addiction destroys trust.
Here’s a summary:
-Step 1 of the 12 Steps
-How it reflects the steps toward God
-What heals more quickly
0:34 What this season is based on
2:04 Step 1’s key phrases
2:27 What Jay sees with the guys he works with
3:02 A different perspective on our powerlessness
3:57 The difficulty Jay had with this step
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