She helped me realize when he was playing games with me.
–A.M. in OR
She’s very perceptive.
She could ‘cut’ men with that gift,
but she’s kind and supportive instead.
–E.W. in MI
“I reached out to Lori through a referral from my therapist. I was desperate for new ways to cope with the pain and loss that I was experiencing in my marriage of 22 years.
“My husband struggles with several things including porn use and infidelity. The dysfunction in our relationship had broken parts of me that I was struggling to heal. Although my husband didn’t stay in the program, I was able to learn and apply new techniques to heal and move forward with my life.
“I already knew my situation wasn’t unique, but it was so nice to find a program that led me to a place of knowing that I wasn’t alone and I wasn’t without options as I chose to stay in my marriage and fight for restoration of the relationship.
“No matter what the outcome with my relationship with my husband, I know that I will be able to make good decisions and keep myself and my children safe and healthy using the knowledge I have gained through Lori’s mentorship.”
L.I. in MI
Now it’s easier to know what’s best… what I need to do.
–T.D. in KS
I thank God for Lori’s life!
I don’t think I could have made it without her intervention, and I thank God for using her as an instrument.
Her help was crucial to the healing of my marriage…
I used to call myself “Mara,” but I’m not bitter anymore. My bitterness has been turned into victory."Mara" in GA
She, with love and grace, doesn’t let him off the hook. Everyone else has let him off the hook. Jay has such a great approach with my husband–direct, but not ‘in-your-face.’
-L.I. in KS
She’s able to feel other’s pain and put words to it.
–L.M. in MI
“When I practice the things I have learned from Lori, it helps my heart to heal and recover… and it helps our marriage to heal and recover.
“I better understand that it’s not, ‘He will clean up his side of the street, and I will clean up my side of the street.’
“There is work that I must do separate from my husband, and there is work he must do to separate from me, but only to the point where we can work together. That together ultimately is the best.
“She also helped me to know that I can believe (my sense of) how well we really are doing… helped me believe that I am doing relatively well, considering what I’d been through for so long.
“She’s very encouraging while maintaining reality for me… not offering me a false sense of security. Instead she helps me to see that there is security already. ”
R.B. in PA
She looks for the best in people.
–H.M. in OK
She’s a gentle person, but not a push-over.
–T.M. in OK
“I have had several therapists and counselors throughout my 61 years, but Lori is a standout.
“She gave me the most unique and insightful homework assignments I could have ever imagined, all customized with the help of the Holy Spirit just for me. Her connection with the Holy Spirit is awesome and makes her the most special help I have gotten during this incredibly difficult time.
“Lori is gifted in so many ways, but most notably for enabling me to find love for myself, which I desperately needed to do, because I had come to believe the awful things my husband had said through words and actions: that I was not beautiful, that I was responsible for everything that had gone badly in my life, etc.
“But Lori helped me to discover my true beauty and worth through finally seeing myself as our Father in Heaven sees me: glowing and beautifully kissed by the Healing Blood of Messiah, Loved with the Highest of Loves, and Highly Favored by Abba Yah…..HalleluYah!!
“And, of course, the amazing synergy she has with her husband, Jay… they will show you the best possible outcomes for your situation, and lead you to achieve them in the most effective way possible, whether the marriage survives or not.
“During this lonely and difficult time, it has been good to have Lori, even though she was physically miles away, to virtually hold my hand and walk with me through this valley while reminding me in her sweet, reassuring way that the Father will never leave me.”
S.L. in TN
I love our one-on-one talks…very insightful.
–T.L. in OK
“I’ve been praying for years that God would bring women like Lori to provide hope to the hurting spouses of men who struggle.
“She’s unafraid to ask the hard questions, so that others can heal and begin living their lives to the full.
“I have no reservations recommending Lori to come alongside any woman who is searching for a way out. (Partners of porn users) are such an under-served group and deserve the very best help available.
“I’m convinced that the best help comes from women who’ve been there themselves, so there’s no doubt that Lori is an answer to my prayer.”Michael Leahy in GA, speaker, trainer and author of Porn Nation