START HERE (His Porn.)

Certain posts on this website are geared toward making sense of his porn habit, helping you see it in a new light.  They’ll probably make you a little angry.  Why?

Because you’ll also begin to see his justifications in a new light.

Maybe you’re already angry. If so, you’re not alone. Many partners are angry over this.  Unfortunately, others usually don’t know what to do with that anger, so they shut you down in a way that harms you even further.

So know this: I am not afraid of your anger.  It’s just passion for a better life.

And when it comes to porn,

I think anger can be a healthy thing.

I see it as part of the grieving process.

Too many women suppress their anger, but it hovers just under the surface in bitterness or it explodes in a rage.  Either way it turns women into people they never intended to be.  And worse, suppressed anger keeps them stuck.

But when a woman wakes up to that fire inside her–Wow!

It’s a powerful tool to move her life

and her relationship to new and better places.

So, if what you read here makes you angry, go ahead and be angry.  But stick with me.  Keep reading. Let your anger have its say, but send me your rant.  Raging against your partner will only work against you.

Out here, you can be irate, and I’ll respect it.

But instead of leaving you in that stage of grief, I want to help you turn that anger into effective action.  Why? Because you want more than an angry life.

Don’t you?