Lori shares what she wishes she’d known about betrayal the first time the truth came out.
Topics Covered:
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2:39 What she wishes she had known: “That I’m not ‘crazy'”
3:46 What Jay sees with guys
4:22 One of the reasons we end up feeling ‘crazy’ is…
4:44 Why porn feel more risky than other addictions
5:48 She wishes she had known: ‘To be careful who I had talked to about this… including the professionals…
5:57 … because there are two different main approaches (Codependent Model v. Trauma Model)’
7:00 There’s something else going on and it’s not codependency
7:15 The issue of Treatment Induced Trauma
8:23 She wishes she’d known: “To look for a Betrayal Trauma Trained person” in the helping community
8:36 She wishes she’d known: “He loved it… and he hated it”
9:10 Jay explains how it affected him
9:52 “I can’t control myself around certain members of the opposite sex”
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