What Lori Wishes She’d Known about Betrayal Trauma and Porn Addiction, Pt 1 (Video) – 2.05S

Lori shares what she wishes she’d known about betrayal the first time the truth came out.

 

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2:39 What she wishes she had known: “That I’m not ‘crazy'”

3:46 What Jay sees with guys

4:22 One of the reasons we end up feeling ‘crazy’ is…

4:44 Why porn feel more risky than other addictions

5:48 She wishes she had known: ‘To be careful who I had talked to about this… including the professionals…

5:57 … because there are two different main approaches (Codependent Model v. Trauma Model)’

7:00 There’s something else going on and it’s not codependency

7:15 The issue of Treatment Induced Trauma

8:23 She wishes she’d known: “To look for a Betrayal Trauma Trained person” in the helping community

8:36 She wishes she’d known: “He loved it… and he hated it”

9:10 Jay explains how it affected him

9:52 “I can’t control myself around certain members of the opposite sex”

 

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