What Lori Wishes She’d Known About Porn Addiction & Betrayal Trauma, Pt 2 (Video) – 2.06S

This is a continuation of the previous episode where Lori shares what she wishes she’d known the first time the truth came out.

 

Topics Covered:
***TRIGGER WARINING: The section from 6:36 to 9:36 could trigger people whose marriages aren’t in a good place right now.***

1:11 She wishes she’d known: “That it could never satisfy him”

2:04 Which is also how involvement in porn can get into some scary areas

2:28 At first the man might be horrified by the porn he finds, but then…

2:48 The parts of our brain that are horrified are close to the parts of our brain that get turned on

3:42 She wishes she’d known: “How important boundaries were… and how difficult they would be to maintain”

4:15 Jay’s take on boundaries

5:45 When a woman finds her voice, that’s when things can ‘get hairy.’

***TRIGGER WARNING 6:36 – 9:36***

6:36 She wishes she’d known: “He could make me his one-and-only”

7:22 Jay speaks on this

7:53 ‘Guys, please understand, she does want to know you”

8:10 She wishes she’d known: “That marriage could be this great”

8:45 What helps Jay stay sober

9:28 She wishes she’d known: “That it would be worth it”

9:36 How to download Lori’s free guide, 7 Tools Women Rarely Find for things you can do right now to start healing more quickly.

 

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Comments 2

  1. Great work you two
    I hope you follow up this one with some discussion of jays part in getting to the happy marriage from the messy one

    Hug Lori

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      Hello B, It is soooo good seeing your name out here. I think of you (and the rest of the group) often!

      We haven’t recorded one like that, but we will definitely put it in the hopper.

      Hugging you back, friend,
      Lori

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