How to Know: Should You Stay or Go (“I am more important than…”) – 4.18S

How do you know if you should stay or go? And what would cause Lori to say, “I am more important than ___”? We discuss those topics with author and coach, Matthew Fray, as well as what if he never gets it?

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)

0:00 Intro
0:15 What Matt would have told Jay and Lori to do back then
1:24 One Solution: Where to draw the line between staying or going? *
4:22 One Solution: Support network (and being validated) *
5:54 The guy may eventually ‘get it,’ but if not…
7:24 Not advocating for divorce, but health *
8:28 “I am more important than my marriage”
9:44 In the next episode: 2 Values / 2 Other Addictions – Jay and Lori’s website – Matthew Fray’s website – Lori’s site for betrayed partners – Jay’s site for porn addiction recovery


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