One Thing Many Guys Hide (honesty isn’t enough) – 4.23S

Rebuilding trust takes more than honest answers to the questions you are asked. You have to share what is going on for you without being prompted. This is huge in rebuilding trust after betrayal.

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)

0:00 Intro
0:12 Not lying but not sharing (this) either *
2:37 One Solution: Share thoughts & feelings for connection
3:41 One Solution: Openness vs honesty to rebuild trust *
5:36 Matt’s lightbulb moment: “It meant we weren’t freaks”
7:36 Blind spots may be why good men harm relationships *
8:14 One Solution: One of the best things Lori did for Jay’s blind spots (***NOTE: Lori only did this after she knew Jay wouldn’t use the information against her***)
10:44 In the next episode: One thing some guys resent – Jay and Lori’s website – Matthew Fray’s website – Lori’s site for betrayed partners – Jay’s site for porn addiction recovery


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