“Aren’t You Over That Yet?” (his pain vs. her pain) – 4.12S

This video covers 3 places guys get stuck in broken trust, how he can connect with her pain after broken trust, and what to know if a guy is saying, “Aren’t you over that yet?”.

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)
0:00 Intro / Boys don’t cry?
0:40 One Solution: How guys can connect with her pain *
3:27 “Aren’t you over that yet?” (Therapists said it will take this long) *
5:52 Guys say, “But I don’t agree with her.” (agreeing vs validating)
8:12 3 places guys can get stuck *
9:15 “If he doesn’t agree with me, he abandons me”
11:16 The person I want to be
11:54 One Solution: An important mindset to have *
15:08 In the next episode: “… why does she keep attacking me?”

https://thecouplecure.com – Jay and Lori’s website
https://matthewfray.com – Matt’s website
https://pornpainhealed.com – Lori’s site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com – Jay’s site for porn addiction recovery

#validation
#trust
#safety
#relationships

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