Free Tips and Guidance

My articles are laid out in three tracks below:

  • His Porn: Tips on how to handle his justifications and articles to help you know how to talk about this more effectively.
  • Your Pain: Tips on how to grieve the betrayal and articles to help you know you’re not alone.
  • Healing: Tips on how to begin healing and articles to help you have more peace–no matter what he chooses.
  • (Posts on website news and event updates follow down below.)

Feel free to browse in any way you see fit.  For a chronological list of my articles, click “Blog” in the menu above.

His Porn.

  • START HERE (His Porn.)
    START HERE (His Porn.)
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  • Today's Thought: What to Look For
    Today's Thought: What to Look For
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  • Level the Playing Field? No. (Other men)
    Level the Playing Field? No. (Other men)
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  • Level the Playing Field? Okay! (Looking at other women)
    Level the Playing Field? Okay! (Looking at other women)
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  • "You're to Blame for His Porn Problem"
    "You're to Blame for His Porn Problem"
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  • Why is Sex Everywhere? (Advertising: Part 1)
    Why is Sex Everywhere? (Advertising: Part 1)
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  • Why is Sex Everywhere? (Advertising: Part 2)
    Why is Sex Everywhere? (Advertising: Part 2)
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  • "Am I Ashamed? Yes, But…"
    "Am I Ashamed? Yes, But…"
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  • How To Get The Truth (one technique)
    How To Get The Truth (one technique)
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  • What to Do BEFORE "Getting to the Truth"
    What to Do BEFORE "Getting to the Truth"
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Your Pain.

  • START HERE (Your Pain.)
    START HERE (Your Pain.)
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  • If I Hear "Have Faith" One More Time!!!
    If I Hear "Have Faith" One More Time!!!
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  • Stay Bruiseable? only if...
    Stay Bruiseable? only if...
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  • The Whole Grocery Store Cried
    The Whole Grocery Store Cried
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  • Further Harming Women Inside, and Outside, the Church
    Further Harming Women Inside, and Outside, the Church
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  • You are the Peak of Creation!
    You are the Peak of Creation!
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  • I Don’t Want This Making You Look Worse (Concealer)
    I Don’t Want This Making You Look Worse (Concealer)
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  • ‘I Wish I Could Break His Heart’ (Music)
    ‘I Wish I Could Break His Heart’ (Music)
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  • ‘I Wish I Could Break His Heart’ (Part 2)
    ‘I Wish I Could Break His Heart’ (Part 2)
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  • Valley of Shadows and Death?
    Valley of Shadows and Death?
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Healing.

  • My Story: Why Story is Important
    My Story: Why Story is Important
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  • Guys want it too!
    Guys want it too!
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  • Why is this taking so long?
    Why is this taking so long?
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  • Why is this taking so long? Part B (Short and Sweet)
    Why is this taking so long? Part B (Short and Sweet)
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  • Many Won't Make It--And Many Will
    Many Won't Make It--And Many Will
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  • Today's Thought: Uncontrollable Emotions
    Today's Thought: Uncontrollable Emotions
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  • You Have to Have a Vision
    You Have to Have a Vision
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  • Quick Tip: "Hey, Sexy..."
    Quick Tip: "Hey, Sexy..."
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  • How To Get The Truth (one technique)
    How To Get The Truth (one technique)
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  • Quick Quote: Stress or Passion?
    Quick Quote: Stress or Passion?
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News and Events

  • THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW (I'm doing it!)
    THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW (I'm doing it!)
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  • Faith Friendly (Quick Video)
    Faith Friendly (Quick Video)
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  • My Story: Why Story is Important
    My Story: Why Story is Important
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  • I'll be gone for a bit, but (NEW FREEBIE!)
    I'll be gone for a bit, but (NEW FREEBIE!)
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  • I'm Back… With Something NEW!
    I'm Back… With Something NEW!
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  • If you miss any FREE GUIDES
    If you miss any FREE GUIDES
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  • Today's Thought: Not in my lifetime, so...
    Today's Thought: Not in my lifetime, so...
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  • What I'm Passionate About
    What I'm Passionate About
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  • Happy 6th Birthday, Hubby!
    Happy 6th Birthday, Hubby!
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  • Who am I?
    Who am I?
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  • First Public Speaking Events
    First Public Speaking Events
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  • Our Interview - Oct. 2016
    Our Interview - Oct. 2016
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  • Speaking This Week… ( and a new guide)
    Speaking This Week… ( and a new guide)
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  • Should You Be a Force for Change? (Webinar)
    Should You Be a Force for Change? (Webinar)
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  • "Don't I Have a Right to the Truth?" (Webinar)
    "Don't I Have a Right to the Truth?" (Webinar)
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